Rob said: In order to have free will, one has to become independent of the other. Do you agree with this idea?
For you and I and the readers of this thread YES, you are independent of me and everyone else. The Son is not independent of the Father or the Holy Spirit, or any other combination. The Father, Son & Holy Spirit are
Ontologically One God - not three independent Beings as Ellen White taught. You are getting this idea from the programming of Ellen White's Great Controversy, an Arian work that was inspired by an accomplished Arian writer (Paradise Lost by John Milton). If Ellen White was in a college writing class she would have received an "F" and been expelled from the college for stealing ideas and phrases from someone else and trying to pass it off as her own work. This is now a fact that even the scholars of the SDA Church can't deny.
Rob, there are certain things God CAN'T do.
Titus 1, 2
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Paul, a bondservant of God and an apostle of Jesus Christ, according to the faith of God’s elect and the acknowledgment of the truth which accords with godliness, in hope of eternal life which God, who cannot lie, promised before time began, but has in due time manifested His word through preaching, which was committed to me according to the commandment of God our Savior"
Paul is saying God CANNOT LIE, this is something that God does not have free will to do, Rob. The same verse is telling you that this great God of Heaven also promised eternal life / salvation
BEFORE the world began. This means "THE SAVIOR" AKA Christ - was identified as "THE CHRIST" (The Savior)
in eternity before Jesus was born.
Rob (and SDA's watching this thread), think about this for just a minute.
John the Baptist was PLUGGED IN, he had been dedicated to the Lord prior to his birth. Read
Matthew 11, 1-6 and realize that while John was in prison he sent two of his disciples to ask "THE CHRIST" if He was the one they had been waiting for or should they keep looking for another (as in another Christ). Jesus (who was the Christ from Eternity) answers John's disciples by quoting
Isaiah 35! Any Jew or pagan at that time familiar with the Book of Isaiah would know that Isaiah was quoting God Almighty when God Almighty said that
He Himself would come and save.
So, I've given 3 Scriptures (out of over 150) to ponder and apply your logic to. God CANNOT lie or break His promises combined with Christ being the express promise of God before the world was even created defaults into a situation where IF Ellen White's hypothetical Christ sinning, loosing it's salvation and eternally ceasing to exist had been realized God would have been both a liar AND a promise breaker.
This is why Ellen White's (& your) 'God has freewill to not be God' is easily dismissed because God CAN'T LIE or BREAK PROMISES.
Ellen White took her Arian position to such an extreme that she gloated that after Christ Resurrected, He immediately winged his way to heaven to make sure the flesh father accepted his sacrifice! If this doesn't make the hair stand up on the back of your neck Rob may God help you.
Think of all the things Christ said before His death about "coming in the clouds of heaven", "when you see the Son of Man come in His glory", "When the Son of man comes with His angels" and scores of other statements of Christ where He is affirming what IS GOING TO HAPPEN in the future. Why would the Resurrected Christ need to fly up to heaven to make sure "The Father" approved of his stunt on the cross????
You'll notice I'm not dealing with your other questions because we've not settled the paramount question (THIS QUESTION). Prior to running down a plethora or endless rabbit holes about free will we need to build on the sure foundation of Almighty God and work out from there. This is why I've been discussing this subject with you in this way. I hope you understand.
I'm not saying something here that is only distinctive to Catholics and Catholicism. A Lutheran, a Baptist, an Evangelical Christian, an Orthodox Christ and a Reformed Christian would agree with every ounce of what I've just said. On the other hand the position you (Rob) are advocating are championed by the Jehovah's Witnesses Christadelphians, Branch Davidians and groups like that - ALL of which are Anti-Trinitarian. What do you say about this fact?